SPAT: Single People Alone Together.
The Covid-19 pandemic, and the subsequent measures to slow that deadly cough, were mostly shouldered by the youth. Kids locked out of schools, college students packed up and sent home, fresh graduates just into the workforce told to utilize food delivery applications while NOT leaving their small apartments while checking in on various video conference applications for job tasks.
As such, an almost debilitating loneliness has taken hold. In 2023, the Surgeon General of these United States replaced the Covid with social isolation as the new epidemic, National Public Radio reporting, “5-24 spend 70% less time in person with friends than those of the same age did in 2003. This difference amounts to nearly 1,000 fewer hours per year.”
The dating application Hinge, seeing altruism-washed hard cold dollars, decided to expand its operation to create social circles as those who don’t have friends “end up bringing long checklists of needs to a potential partner. It can be too much for a relationship to bear,” according to the company’s Director of Social Innovation Josh Penny.
“As a brand that focuses on Gen Z, we were really alarmed to learn about just how much the loneliness epidemic was impacting them,” he added for good measure.
As such, Hinge involved the Foundation for Social Connection which, in turn, fingered surfing as a nice place for people to get to know each other.
Elementary school teacher Genesy Mendez, 29, was one such Gen-Zer who didn’t know how to make friends so joined a surf group called Intersxtn Surf, described as “a group for women of color who surf together” and credited it with “making new, meaningful friendships.”
Soon, she was even dating a man who did not come from the surfing group and also refuses to participate in this Sport of Kings.
“It’s not necessarily something that my partner wants to engage in but that’s OK,” says Mendez. “Surfing is just for me — and my friends.”
Getting that socially isolated localism vibe down.
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So Lonely!… https://media4.giphy.com/me…
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So Genesy found action due to her surf group or not because of her surf group? I’m contemplating whether I need Tim Nelson to interpret this metaphysical question that has me perplexed. Or should I just go over to Stab to ruin my day?
is the main pic ben aipa?
SPAT GRIT
Single People Alone Together.
Geriatric Retard Incel Twats
Is that retro Chas in the pic, interacting there?
top ten subways…
Hybrid…will succeed
In the Coliseum, questionable…
How many times can one fight the same battle over and over, again…
“Did you get here from the top or did they slide you in from the bottom…”
With the lions?
Who will succeed?
What is survival?
That’s the bottom line…
Who’s on my side…?
I’m a survivor…
And so are we…family…
Toss out the lions and the scary bears…
Those are the teachers and your mom and dad…
We’re more than hybrid….
And scarier than bear, er, bulls…
Invest in your future, as we all did (do)…
GavinNewsome~
when I saw the headline…I thought someone had lost their smart phone!
milking the prostate
BEACH GRIT IDENTIFIED AS CURING LONELINESS AMONGST ULTRA-ISOLATED FORMER SURFERS! https://uploads.disquscdn.c…
here’s the
reluncantreluncant few that joined the army? then dropped out…homos?“You me carpark now” tshirt with every Minge download
I’m a surfer that hates surfers
No more fingering surfing please
It’s all messed up as you allude to Chas. Out of chaos comes order. That is the mantra across all nations by the powers that be.
Chas mate that shot up top reminiscent of you and one Asshat Goggans at Expo…
“interacting”.
Being part of a surf group sounds like my version of hell.
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yet here we are on BG!
And all this time I thought the cure for the loneliness epidemic was anonymously commenting on Beach Grit tripe…
Charlie and DR are running a long study for their degrees in psychology based on commenting patterns and emergent psychological profiles. They so far have only identified one type of psychology which is why they have to keep BG going until a comparative type emerges. Basically they can’t turn in a thesis titled “Beach Grit is Bait Click: Triggering lonely bored men in middle age crisis who don’t surf anymore and know fuck all about politics, pop culture, sex, guns, music, and literature but who think there’s really a Surfline Man.”
yeah but we think we do know something?
While you are onto those two, they have yet to study the quasi-bitter, self-isolating Boomers who frequent BG when they tire of dealing with mainstream media and in person humans. As for surfing, I enjoy the isolation I feel when sitting outside on my board knowing full well that eventually I’ll have to interact with another human again.