This week: should I leave my boy, I ain't happy and… pro surfing? Should I become?
Pam Reynolds, four years old, got advice! “He shall redeem their soul from deceit and violent: and precious shall their blood be in their site. Psalm 72:14.’ Relax, BeachGrits, it’s the same French bulldog. She nods and winks. And each time she speaks a wave of warmth just fizzes through! Redeem your soul below.
FINDING JOY
Dear Pam,
I don’t have any haunting, life-threatening problems but, as a Millennial I feel… numb. Do you ever get that feeling of hopelessness, of pushing a heavy load, with nose, up a perpetual incline? How can I find my joy?
Edie, Marseille.
FUTURE PRO SURFER
Dear Pam,
I want to ditch my life in an office and become a “professional surfer”. Do you know anything about this business? Is it a hard “nut” to crack? Is there money in it? Do compromises have to be made?
Yair, Tel Aviv.
LEAVE THE BOY
Dear Pam,
Should I leave my boyfriend, who loves me, but seems unwilling to commit to a physical relationship.
Serious, Encinitas.