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Tear-jerking documentary casts surf as a woman’s only escape from Bangladesh’s brutal patriarchy, “People say girls who go surfing are sluts. There is no plan B. Surfing is everything!”

Weep for the brave surfer girls of Bangladesh.

Bangladesh is the sorta place women’s rights advocate Malala Yousafzai would love to turn on its head and shake by the ankles till all the loose change falls outta its pockets.

Human Rights Watch quoted one Bangladeshi woman as saying, “I sleep in my own deathbed.”

Wives doused with nitric acid, necklace and earrings melting into skin. Murders over dowery disputes. Husbands striking wives over the head with bricks because they don’t get cold water from the refrigerator fast enough during iftar.

A bleak place to be a gal.

But then there are the Surf Girls of Cox’s Bazar.

InSync Media and director Elizabeth D. Costa have created a documentary that shows how surfing has given three girls from Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh’s main surfing hub, a chance at escaping the brutal black male patriarchy.

Per the presser,

Shobe, Ayesha and Suma break away from the drudgery of their lives by joining a surf club in Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh. The girls fight family pressure and social judgement, for a few hours on the waves. They gain confidence as their natural skill and prowess gains attention and praise. Soon they are poised to make history as Bangladesh’s first women surfers. The odds are stacked against them but the girls refuse to give up. Balancing the freedom of the waves with the restrictive realities of their circumstances, we experience the thrill and struggle of coming-of-age in a developing country.

It takes a stone cold heart not to be moved, maybe even a little choked up, by the two-minute trailer.

We hear 14-year-old Shobe say, “I don’t dwell on the past. I think about the future. I choose my path. And now I am free.”

(Not the Orange County I-just-dropped-the-kids-off-at-school-and-now- I-can-drink-my-chai-latte-in -peace-free but Bangladeshi free.)

She continues,

“My dream is to go to different countries and participate in surfing competitions and be famous. If my dad sees me on TV when I’m famous then he will come back.”

We hear from Suma, The Provider, who’s been responsible for her families income since she was seven. When she sells eggs on the beach, she stops to watch the surfers.

Her reaction?

“I have no other dream left.”

Ayesha is deemed The Survivor. Her father is abusive and believes all girls who surf are sluts.

Her dream is to be a lifeguard on the beach.

She’s quoted with a sullen face,

“Why is every day such a chore. My mind just escapes to the sea. I mean, surfing is just mixed in my blood.”

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Benis

we purebloods thank you vaxxrats for your service

timsluis

Shoulda got Pfizer. My 5g is unreal.

Z Knows

Only took you few minutes to preach us about your political stance!

Jimmy the Saint

So these girls come from extreme poverty with disapproving parents, yet are riding CI’s and wearing wetsuits. They have enough free time to get good at surfing and spend time at the surf club? The scene where the girl is fighting with her father just looks like bad acting. And then we come to pushing a narrative that surfing (rather than schooling) is going to offer these girls a brighter future. Surfing is a fun pastime, let’s not pollute children’s experience of it with any other notions.

Stick man

Yeah I didn’t like the part where she said she “wants to be famous”.

surfmom

Bingo

Hot stuff

It’s ok to hate evil

Hot stuff

They’re Muslims so they’re beyond judgement. Nothing to see here.

Simsurf

Imagine hating a group of people this much

Hot stuff

You cant blame her.

ValiantScorn

Love your cutback

Derek Hynd's Missing Fins

Jen See can do a Surfline Man: Bangladesh series next.

GiGi

Trixy to dance around/ navigate, but would definitely be interesting…..

ValiantScorn

Bangladeshi’s found a way to keep the lineups thin, and free of speed bumps.

Occ Topus

Earlier today, I jumped into my new Tundra, drove to a spot north of Kona, and surfed overhead waves, by myself.
Afterwards, I drove back to my large house on five acres. Watching the above video reminds me how fortunate so many of us are to have the lives we have. Those girls are beyond courageous. If anyone comes up with a way to help them, count me in.

Benis

You can send me some money and I’ll make sure it gets to them

timsluis

Sell your tundra, buy a Prius.
Get a MacBook, rose gold, and a Starbucks flavoured Latte. Post to Instagram, something about thought and prayers. It’s been saving the poor since 2007.

The Bitchy Crab

Don’t forget the FREE TIBET stickers.

timsluis

Also don’t feel guilty. It’s not your fault, it’s just your turn.

Gadoot

You sound exactly like someone that lives down the street.

Dogsnuts

Surely there is something this here degenerate group of layabouts can do. What are some suggestions? There is a lot of love and smart guys amongst us. Surely if we can sponsor Caio Ibelli…..

Otto

Queen sang that fat-bottom girls make the rockin’ world go round. Butt let’s be honest, it’s sluts. And inside every woman is a slut just waiting to blossom, which used to be celebrated every Halloween until some genius decided that that was somehow offensive to women working in the sex industry. *Heavy Sigh*

Dogsnuts

I hope you aren’t completely dead inside xox

NEGATRON

Montana doesn’t seem to be helping him. I smell marital problems and using the internet as a form of relief.

Otto

You shouldn’t place your nose so damn close to your computer keyboard. God only knows where those fingers of yours have been.

Return of the Samsung Board

Hahaha ‘Spose he is a plumber

Dogsnuts

Yeah perhaps, I come here to relax not project my ill feelings.

Stick man

yepp. laugh and talk shit about surfy things.

Derek Hynd's Missing Fins

99.76% sure he doesn’t even surf.

Stick man

1-800-976-sure

Hot stuff

It’s very progressive.


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