“I feel ill. Kids at the beach by themselves at that age makes me feel physically ill."
This world is a cruel place, seemingly crueler everyday, with opinions hewn into instruments of torture and used, mercilessly to flog those with wrong thinking or actions in the public square. Brutal flicks of the lash meant to leave deep scars and also scare others away from similar wrong thinking or actions. And let us travel, together, to Australia where two parents, Jason and Sammy, are currently tied to the sawhorse, backs exposed, for daring let their young children swim unsupervised in the ocean.
The revelation was made on the reality program Parental Guidance in which parents share tricks of the trade and brutalize each other when tactics diverge. The two engage in what they call “lighthouse parenting” in which they allow their oldest two children, Pepper, 10, and Jude, 6, go to the beach all by their big selves and splash splash away.
“It’s an opportunity for them to showcase how independent they can be, and give them some trust as well,” Sammy declared.
Well, people were not pleased, no not at all.
“I feel ill. Kids at the beach by themselves at that age makes me feel physically ill,” one mother spat.
“That water can change in an instant and from where you are and where the kids are, they’re gone,” another added.
Sammy, though, stuck to her guns, responding, “The thing with our parenting style is the children to be aware of their own limitations,” which brought out the big guns from World Surf League CEO Erik Logan who in an open letter stated:
To the WSL community,
I want to address the conversation that happened in our community following the recent Championship Tour event at the Surf Ranch. As you likely know, a small number of athletes made statements questioning the judging of the competition and the final results.
I want to respond directly to those statements, however, we first need to address a much more important issue. In recent days, a number of surfers, WSL judges, and employees have been subject to harassment, intimidation, and threats of violence, including death threats, as a direct result of those statements. Those things should never happen in our sport or any sport, and we’re devastated that members of our community have been subject to them. It is an important reminder to us all that words have consequences. We hope the entire WSL community stands with us in rejecting all forms of harassment and intimidation.
Etc.
Back to Jason, Sammy and their crazy ways, do you stand with them, thinking that today’s children are over-coddled and need a little bit more freedom or are we not doing enough to keep them safe?
Do you let your own little ones swim or surf alone?
Do you dare utter if you do?
Watch out.
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No one was Russian out to save him
no car dating. but I love Albert Lee
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Reminds of a story that Steph Gilmore has told about her dad. He would take the kids to the beach and draw a circle in the sand and tell the kids to stay in the circle whilst he went surfing.
That’s how GOATs are created. 😂😂
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If dadders ain’t there pushing the little kooks into my waves then we’re good
Your dialogue tags are hilarious, he spat.
I don’t think it’s possible for a couple to look more Australian
Seen, raised.
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Hope the kids had plenty of sunscreen on if they have their dads complexion
These kids should be at a home considering their sex or at a drag story time
Bone’s Eye Pipeline. – Bansai Mexicano I mean Petacalco; Pascuales🌊🤸
You don’t even slowly adjust the levels, you just dump the crossfader……
hey o! the zingers are flying now!
Im pretty sure “the beach” is what most Hawaiians use for daycare or after school care. What’s the problem?
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I seen this shit on Instagram this morning. Real bad scene.
found a mega tooth. carbon-dated it. one of jerry’s kids…
Digging deep into the content mines today, Chas. Don’t forget to come up for air
Compare & contrast these two management styles…I’ll say both are idealized from a combo of Montessori School, Romper Room and Gymboree…Summary: No winning trophies or medals for either.
This is a completely coherent and understandable post, this is unacceptable from you my friend!
trifecta/
In Australia you need a permit to go fishing but not to be a parent.
Those kid are too young for a license.
… maybe this is why the Brazilians rip harder? More lighthouse parents? That said, this would be insanity — maybe criminal — on the OBX, where steep drop offs and rip currents are no joke. Lots of other places w/ more gentle / gradual seascapes, no big deal.
“Both can agree: No sex in the dunes.” Kaipo
10 can be ok if the kid grew up on the beach if there are older kids around and lifeguards.
I was spending all day at an obx like beach at that age . The ocean is like fire, you learn to respect it if your expose to it enough . 6 is very risky , but I knew kids that were dropped off at 3 and 4 years old for the day and now they are serious rippers.
Different times in a small town
Would be even more entertaining if they were wearing Filipe lion shirts during the interview.
Or, could be more entertaining if Chas decided to include all the words in his sentences as opposed to randomly leaving words out, including in the title. Bravo Charles, bravo.
Title should be “Horse Mercilessly Flogged in Court of Public Opinion ….etc”
validation: The Godfather is next up in my cue.