Grom abuse.
The internet has exploded into righteous indignation as it has just been revealed a British surfer/father, out at the beach with his six-year-old son, made the boy walk to the family vacation rental all by himself. The story was first posted on parenting form mumsnet under the thread “Am I Being Unreasonable.”
After the young man showed up at the door declaring, “Daddy told me to come back on my own!” beaming pride. The mother, who uses the handle Throwauay wrote, “Could you get worked up about this or am I being precious? (Our family is staying at the top of an apartment block) and when you get outside the block, the beach is down three steep sets of stairs, through a narrow, very uneven and twisty alley, across a road and down some wooden steps. I’m livid because he’s six and there are any number of strangers and hazards between there and here.”
Furthermore, the deadbeat did not call to make sure the progeny had made it back safely.
Opinion was universally against the dad.
DelphiniumBlue declared, “Yes, the fact that he hasn’t even checked that he’s made it back, or warned you to look out for him…in a strange country, by the sea…That is so worrying.”
Mountainsunsets wrote, “YANBU [you are not being unreasonable]. Totally unacceptable.”
Crunchymum added, “I’d be utterly livid too. It’s unforgivable.”
Will you get on mumsnet and defend your water brother?
Truth be told, the original piece never said if the father was a surfer or not but I can’t imagine what other sort of person would be otherwise too occupied to walk a child a few blocks home.
Classic grom abuse.
More importantly, though, do you believe helicopter parenting grows healthy children or are you more of a Grizzly Adams man?
More as the story develops.
:You did this to me:
SanO has a trail…well-carved out…
Trestles, not so much…
TSJ has more and J Currie…
Surflineman & TSJ invoices due…
stranger than this: vimeo “discussion panel on sea of darknesss”…must watch!
hahahahahha
yet again, nothing but upvoting
Probably wouldnt do it in Portugal
I take it mumsnet is the home of them.
hey old man? meet you on the beach…trade you an auga for an Ace bunchen? https://scontent-sjc3-1.xx….
FBHappySurfers…”the
closest advantage to standing on a boogie board? don’t know of many
spots where it would work…not in cali, not in maui…maybe inside
waikiki, publics, the wall…can’t paddle ’em…a 260 pound friend
showed up one day in manhattan and spun donuts…us kids all wanted to try it once…the true essence of a novelty! moved on to Bonzers.” Bless you Mr. Bing CopelandCopeland…liked by Bing
Berenstein Bears/Walt Mathou’s step kid…ChiCom Bears…name that movie?
Aha!
This new term apparently has dual meanings.
Habla Ingles?
Youre welcome.
@chazzymike:disqus
Hey! I found some of this the other day and wondered if anyone would like a slice? https://uploads.disquscdn.c…
Whatever happened to the Aussie kid(12?) about 4yrs ago who booked himself a flight to Bali (and hotel etc) with his mum’s credit card and spent a week there living it up large before being found out.
Perhaps he’s embarking on a business career these days.
Perhaps he’s in juvey…
He’s probably catapulted himself into the Australian Stock Exchange as a senior money market accounts manager.
SPOT ON as the Wall Street guys learn early how to leverage an expense account. As for the Aussie boys, the truly driven ones leave for the London exchange…
love home computers/
my paid
editorreviewer said “you should start a blog.”25 years later…
love haiku!
we’re sueing them, Pic!
I’m an ex-one of them and know where all the skeletons are buried…LETS GO!
read about the gangs doing street-takeovers:
As the Los Angeles Police Department continues to crackdown on street
takeovers, KTLA got a look inside a tow yard where some vehicles are
being stored after a recent sweep.
A tow yard in South Los Angeles is housing two cars that were
apparently involved in street takeovers over the weekend. Police
recovered a nitrous oxide tank inside one vehicle that participants were
allegedly using to get high.
We used to fill up trash bags with that nasty gas(from a buddy’s drag Camaro), while smoking hash under a glass back in the late 70s…happy to have survived!
marked as SPAM! risky business, for a money manager and influencer/
wanna hear some Joni? or Mountain? crack us a beer…quietly…Lebanese yellow hash?
Bite you tongue as my man card will NEVER allow me to admit to listening to Joni! Glad the days of pushing that pin into the hash and firing that baby up are rearview mirror! Happy to have survived those days and paddle out after a long day today…
wrote woodstock for c, s, n…& y? heard jaco pastorius on bass…live to surf, and surf to live. you know what i miss most? BAJA!
vivir para surfear con vista y sonido
more mumsnet content please
Ha… My 9 month old rolled himself of the bed earlier today smacking his head and bloodying his nose in the process. Wasn’t the first time he tried to injure himself, but the first time he succeeded. I’m glad he’s okay, but I’m also glad my wife was the one (supposedly) watching. Am I being unreasonable?
YANBU.
Worse than Elo’s foot boo-boo?
Ballet dad/dancer. Like Pete Rose.
More like a self propelled Stage Prop I’d suggest.
I guess not exactly like Pete Rose.
But similar to Pete – esteemed by all 15 here.
Unrelated, have you and he of the silken chops made up yet ?
Or is it still hatred and death threats from wifey ? I’d like to think so.
Fuck cop callers.
That’s the spirit !
Quite similar here, however illicit beers and ciggies weren’t started till I was nine with my older brother and his mates (had to make do with swigging from Dad’s or my Uncle’s till then haha).
Though had my first job delivering pamphlets at 7, and was on the way to financial freedom.
Taking the dinghy out to fish and snorkel the islands a few miles out from our area when I was 10.
Racing motorbikes around the block at 12.
Driving old V-8’s an hour or two to the surf at 15.
Sounds like this kids Dad is a good bloke who’s doing the right thing by giving his son an opportunity to get out and experience the world, and the mum is a fuckin’ idiot (like most these days)…
I presume this was flagged up to you by DDLS?
Beach Grit adjacent?
I think when there is no new news, you take the day off Chas.
YANBU. That’s my learning for the day.
The correct meaning is ‘Y (why) Are No Bums Underarm?’
Which is of course part of the ancient discussion in the fascinating practice of vagrants hurling various processed meat products at motor vehicles.
Bloody Brits culturally appropriating yet another thing wrongly.
LOOK! I’m not making it up. Here’s a record of sausage-throwing-towards-vehicle-by-vagrant recovered from an Egyptian tomb. The archeologists were stunned by the pigments remaining on the depicted hotdog. Just like modern ones. https://uploads.disquscdn.c…
ur nuts or coco’s? let’s check under the floorboard…smuggling labels and stickers?
Yanbu nimby bipoc.
nimbly!
So what’s your handle on mumsnet, Chas ?
Gingeminge?
Ballet journalist?